Humans are the only group in the animal kingdom that takes a long time to develop.

In less than two months dogs can completely depend on themselves.

Humans take years to function as adults; even then they still need someone or something to take care of them.

When they grow up they need a government, an organization or a company to provide them jobs. For some they start a business to take care of them, they never independent.

Which one do you depend on?

This kind of dependence is an external one by external I mean outside our bodies. There is another kind of dependence, which is a way bigger than our jobs; this is the one that controls everything about us. It is the internal dependence. It is happening inside our mind.

Dear reader

Do you depends on others to feel good about yourself. Do you always need somebody to tell you something for you to feel important or do you depend on yourself to make decisions.

If you are one of those that need an approval all the time, you need to change your beliefs.

Listen! You are born to win.

Have you ever seen newborn babies, and are they independent?

Didn't we all were infants sometime in our lives?

Then how do some people get the ability to be sure about themselves?

Usually there are number of reasons and is based on how we were brought up. There is something called emotional programming. It is how we are programmed (how we see others, how we hear other peoples or in general how we learn from people surrounding us.)

Psychologists' say about 50% of who we are right now is programmed at the age of five (this is the reason why a five year old can learn any language and become fluent just like a native one). At the age of eight about 15% is covered. Before the age of 18, 10% more is covered. That means when we are 18, ninety five percent of us is already programmed in our mind: yes 95%

The rest of our live is only 5%. This is for us to change our lives for the better.

Now, If for the past 18 years of your life you've been told, "you can't do this or that and I'm sorry to say that but so

me people have been called stupid, ignorant etc. These people probably believed (concluded) that it is true.

Like I said earlier, You are born to win, Just because so and so said this or that or mistreated you while you were growing up, It does not mean you can keep putting yourself down. Oprah is the best example, She took courage and move to the top.

It is not what has happened to us that shape who we are it is how we overcome it.

The good news is that the remaining 5% is for you to change your life. There are number of ways that you can change yourself, some of the techniques take time to be mastered, some take a lot of money but some are free and easy to do.

One thing I learn in life is that we are completely efficient to live a prosperous life if we allow our self to be.

Galileo says: You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it within himself.

Dear reader it is time to be YOU.

You came to this world as something unique, something that has never happened before, after YOU, there will be no body like you.

Do you see how wonderful that is? Being Unique!

The way you read this article, the way you hear other people or the way you even see the world is very different from me or anybody else.

If you see things different from others then there is no point to feel bad when others tell you...That's how they see the world and this is how YOU see it, simple!

There is a power within you, just waiting to be released so depend on it. Depend on your self.

Sincerely, Timeo Busyanya, Helping individuals, improve their self image

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