Answers these questions and you will immediately highlight what's working in your relationship and what's not - and most importantly why.

When you can answer "yes" to all of the questions you will probably have a relationship that others can only dream of!

Any question that you answer "no" to means that you are missing out on a lot of potential personal and couple satisfaction, but not to worry you can fix 'em.

These are random, and in not particular order of importance. Don't beat yourself up if you answer "no" to some of the questions. Just learn from them and put into action a couple of items at a time to move your relationship forward.

Okay, are you ready?

Here come the 10 questions:

1 Can you name three positive traits that set your relationship apart from most others?

2 Do you communicate openly with your partner about the good and the bad in your relationship?

3 Do you sit down together regularly to discuss both your short and long term goals?

4 When you partner makes a dumb mistake or innocently hurts your feelings do you retaliate or show kindness and understanding?

5 Do you set aside time, at least weekly, that is reserved just for the two of you to enjoy each others' company?

6 Are you totally loyal to each other, no matter what?

7 Do you have a mutual understanding as to what you expect from each other regarding contact, interaction and communication with those o

8 Are you grateful for each other? And do you frequently express that gratitude in word and deed?

9 Is you love and affection for your partner consistent and unconditional?

10 Is your partner the most important person in your life? Be totally honest.

Remember, pat yourself on the back for those you answered "yes", and pick one or two of the "no's” and think of a few simple things for each one to make it a "yes”.

Life is short and your relationship is worth it!