Did you know that the main predators of early humans were large cats? Its true! Recent scientific studies have shown conclusively that our earliest ancestors were preyed upon by large feline hunters. Funny that we are instinctually afraid of spiders and snakes but it was big cats that were the real danger.

Says Dr. Robert W. Sussman, approximately 6 to 10 percent of early humans were preyed upon by cats and other predators. According to evidence that includes teeth marks on bones, talon marks on skulls and holes in a fossil cranium into which sabertooth cat fangs fit, early humans were definitely "on the menu". So what does this mean today? And what does it have to do with finding a life partner?

RAS to the rescue.

RAS stands for reticulating activation system and it is the part of your brain specifically designed to keep you alive in a world filled with teeth, talons and tigers. The RAS has the job of protecting us from our environment. It constantly scans incoming signals from the eyes, ears, nose, skin and other senses, searching for signs of danger. When it receives a signal, that it even suspects of being a threat, it triggers the endocrine system and dumps things like adrenaline into your body in preparation to take action. When your RAS has reacted to an environmental stimuli it then categorizes and files it under "Patterns to Watch Out For” and goes back to seeking danger.

Now here is where it becomes interesting, because we now have this "pattern” in our mind that is literally governing what we pay attention to. Here is the good news. You can program your own RAS! And this, my friend, is the secret to finding your perfect life partner.

The RAS is active all the time and its main job is to protect you. So how do you u

se this to find your perfect life partner? You must "program” or activate, if you prefer, your own RAS to seek out the perfect life partner for you. And to do this you need to be very clear indeed about what you are looking for!

Think about the last time you were excited about buying something. Could be a new car or a "perfect" piece of clothing. You saved and scrimped and waited for a sale and finally got that thing you wanted. You walk triumphantly out of the store and suddenly all around you you see that type of car or that outfit. What has happened here is that you have programmed your "internal computer" to pay attention to that specific thing and now you see it everywhere.

To use your inner "computer" in your quest for a perfect life partner you have to get clear on what you are looking for in a that partner. Write it down and then keep refreshing your vision till you achieve your goal. Sounds too simple right? Well there are other "tips and tricks" you can use to speed up your life partner quest but that is another story!

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