It is a feeling that have to be experienced, not just experienced but that has to be felt. Many poets have tried to explain what it is, but for the one who has not experienced, it is always a mystery. Even philosophers talk about it, in order to make people realize the importance of it. This is one of the aspects in life that has to be felt rather than explained, and it is worth it.

It is also the most expressed word across the world. Still puzzled, well it is nothing but "love”. Yes, it has been the universal emotion that has been keeping this world alive. As, a person not experienced it, I had the strong belief that I would know when it happens. And I also thought that it would be fun and that is the way I wanted to decide my future. But, in real life, I had my own shortcoming's. I never knew that I was experiencing that feeling called "love”. The irony is I know it now, when I guess the doors have been closed, is it forever? That is a million dollar question, which I don't have an answer now!

Well, now I know why so many people have talked about it, because it is so precious and it has to be fully experienced. That is a feeling which cannot be expressed by words or action. I guess people get into a trance which kind of pulls down the veils, in such a way that they are not aware of the happenings around them, i.e. They fail to be consciousness of things happening, around them.

It is something like a dream come true, a home run, a free-ride across the world. You realize that you have experienced it, most often when it is about to end (with smile or tears). It has its own ups and down, like a trip on the rough sea. One moment you are the master of the ocean, and the next moment you are deep down the trenches. Well, this is one of the metaphor's that could give you an idea of how you will feel, when it happens.

The feeling of "love” will make you lose yourself and most often weak and sometimes wicked tooo! To get a hang of it, you will have to experience it, what it means is you will have to get weak to excel in it. Trust me it never comes from other people's experience and quite d

ifficult to understand too. So just feel free to just go with what your heart says. Hopefully, everything will be fine!

The amount of pain it causes is more than anything in this world. And the problem with this and other pain is the fact that you will end up asking for more pain. IT sounds illogical but that is something you will realize only when it happens. You will crave for more pain caused by it. It causes an excruciating pain that is hard to bear and most often leaves you longing for it, more than ever.

It is an art and moreover an experience of an emotion which cannot be explained by words, it has to be felt. It is nothing but "Unconditional Love” that rules everything in this world! When I mean by unconditional, it means selfless, i.e. putting the other person before you. The hidden gain philosophically is the fact that you learn to give away and give in. Which most often kills the ego, within, which helps you excel in life! It brings back the long lost innocence and humility you had as a child. It means that you have completed a full circle and you are back to where your life began. It is filled with joy, happiness, innocence and most important of all your "Love”.

The toughest part is the fact that you want to give back, but family constraints and the confidence your family has on you, pulls you back. It is like caught between two worlds. You would be tear apart, but sustaining that and overcoming it gives you the confidence and courage to take up new challenges in life.

To receive it is something, but to give it back is everything in life. That is the essence of life! So, I will wind up with the most difficult phrase to utter: As far as I know it is "I Love You ……”

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