Here are some great tips for that awkward moment when you have asked a woman to fast-dance and the song is over.

So now this first song is coming to an end. When it ends don't hesitate and look at her to see if she wants to dance to the next record. Just turn away from her while continuing to dance and look at her out of the corner of your eye to see what she is going to do. You see, by hesitating at the end of a song, you force a direct confrontation on whether to dance to the next song. If you just keep on dancing into the next song, taking it for granted that she wants to dance again, you'll be more successful in keeping her out on the dance floor. The longer you dance with her the better your chances of getting to know her.

Now we get to the part when you finish dancing. This will usually end in these following ways:

• She stops dancing and says, "Thank you."
• You're both hot, sweaty, and exhausted from dancing and mutually agree to leave the dance floor.
• Either one of you develops a cramp and has to leave the dance floor. Has this ever happened to you?

This is very important! After you have finished dancing whatever you do, don't let her get away after thanking you for the dance. Just simply say, "Can I join you for a drink?" Also, you could say, "Can I talk to you about something?" Afte

r this statement, she will say, "Talk about what?" Then you say, "I'll tell you when you when we sit down." After this, just start making conversation. Also, if she doesn't have a table and she is just standing like yourself, just say, "Can I talk to you for a little while?" So, what you do after you finish dancing can determine the future of your whole night and whether you're going to become intimate with a woman or not. What I can't figure out is these men that dance with a woman and don't even look at or talk to her while they are dancing and when they finish, he says, "Thanks" and just walks away. Needless to say, you don't meet any women this way.

So when you have finished dancing, move right in for the kill. Don't hesitate; just proceed immediately with determination that you're going to make contact with this woman.

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