This week I want to focus on the myth of someone fulfilling 100% of your needs:

Are you aware that you're hurting your chances for finding true love if you're searching for a woman who can give you everything you need and you can be everything to her? You're looking at the world through rose-colored glasses if you believe that this is true.

Trust me, nobody will get 100% of all his or her needs fulfilled from one person. Consider yourself lucky if you're getting 50% of all needs met by one person.

And don't make the mistake of making your whole world revolve around being with one person. Be involved in a variety of activities apart from your relationship and don't give up your friends just because you're heavily involved in a hot romance.

We all need friends to make our lif

e more fulfilling and happy. When committed to a relationship full-time you'll have less time to spend with your friends, but don't forget them and keep in touch. Your true friends will be able to understand that you don't have as much time to spend with them.

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