Ahh Valentine's Day! Do you remember giving out your own Valentine's Day cards in grammar school decorated with you favorite cartoon characters or super heros? You carefully selected the card that each person would get while holding out the best of the best for that special little someone hoping they would recognize your efforts and love your card most of all? Well, if you are looking to romance your sweetheart, it is going to take a little bit more planning than that.

First of all, some major advice for those who want to play stupid. Don't do it. "Oh, is today Valentine's Day?” "You know I love you - why do I have to buy you flowers too?” "This restaurant wouldn't be so crowded if it wasn't stupid Valentine's Day!” Not very romantic comments, huh? Comments like this will certainly land you in the dog house. You don't want make it seem that it is a burden or annoying to show your love to someone.

Valentine's Day is by far the most romantic holiday of the year and a great time to show that special someone just how much you care. If you're looking to make some headway in a relationship, new or old, you may want to plan ahead. Women love to be romanced and made to feel as though they are someone very special. So, if you plan on stopping by the local supermarket on your way home for some left over, near frozen roses or cheap chocolates, you won't be making a very favorable impression. Planning ahead will bring more rewards than any last minute, "I just remembered” gift.

Plan a special treat for your valentine, like a quiet, candlelit dinner at home for just the two of you. Women love this because it creates a romantic ambience and shows you exercised some careful thought and planning even if dinner is catered. You can also plan a romantic evening a long hot bath for the two of you followed by backrubs and massages. Another great idea is to plan a small getaway for just the two of you. A less expensive and very heartfelt gift is an old-fashioned love letter telling your valentine just what they mean to you.

Now, if you are thinking roses, you are absolutely on the right track. Red roses are the ultimate hallmark for love, not just on Valentine's Day but any day of the year. However, they also deliver a s

trong message of romance and passion. Women love to receive red roses - especially at work. It makes them feel adored and special, leaving their co-workers in awe. Giving roses to your valentine is a token of your affection. As a matter of fact, 75% of men say they would love to get flowers too. Giving flowers to the man in your life is also a symbol of your love, but the arrangement should be kept simple and masculine.

But, did you know that the color of the roses you send mean something? They do, so be careful what color you choose. Red roses as mentioned above represent love, romance and passion. If you have just started seeing someone and not too sure where it is going, you may want to stay away from sending red roses as you may be sending the wrong message. But send yellow or pink roses and that could mean something entirely different. Below is a list of rose colors and their meanings.

Red - Love, passion, respect, courage

Pale Pink - New and fresh love, grace, gentleness and gratitude

Light Pink - A joy to behold, admiration

Dark Pink - Gratitude

Lilac - Love at first sight

Blue - Extraordinary, mystery

Coral - Desire

Peach - Desire, anticipation, sincere appreciation and optimism for the future

Orange - Enthusiasm, desire, fascination

Yellow - Plutonic love, friendship, freedom (don't send if your intentions are romantic and long-lasting)

White - Innocence, purity, secrecy, I'm worthy of you, you're heavenly

Valentine's Day is a perfect time to celebrate your love which all too often gets taken for granted in long term relationships. It is also a great opportunity to jump start a new relationship or add some romance to an existing one. Your valentine is anxiously awaiting any surprises you may have in store. Take advantage of this great opportunity and play cupid!

Best of luck!

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