This week I want to focus on how to tell when you're date is not working out. When your date is not interested in you she will leave clues.

What are the clues? Look for these tell-tell signs that your date is not going well:

• She does not smile at you and doesn't find anything you say to be funny.
• She does not make any eye contact with you. She's always looking away or down when she talks to you. Also, she may be constantly looking at other guys.
• Her entire conversation focuses on herself and she asks nothing about you. She shows no interest in getting to know you.
• She is very silent and says very little to you. Her responses to your questions are mostly, "yes," "no," and "I don't know."
• You feel no chemistry towards her and you can sense that she feels the
  same way.

When a date doesn't work out don't lose any sleep over it. It's all part of the dating game. Sometimes dates work out and sometimes they don't. The main purpose of the date besides having fun, is to get to know each other to see if you would be interested in dating each other.