According to my recently departed professor, the famous "Father of Modern Management,” Peter F. Drucker, if we really want to get ahead, we should "Study success, and not failure.”
This is counter-intuitive advice, but sound advice, nonetheless.
Examine most of the literature on human relations at work, and you'll find it is problem oriented, failure oriented, if you will.
We focus, mostly, on improving relations with difficult people, and even I have added to this burgeoning data base with articles of my own, and a book, "Please Don't Shoot The Messenger!” that is about breaking bad news to resistant people.
Why don't we take some time to study people who are a pleasure to work with?
Possibly, we could imitate them, and make life a lot more pleasant on the job and off.
For instance, I had the pleasure of working with a marketing manager at Xerox who was nothing less than great. I devised a telemarketing script, and without hesitation, he volunteered to test its effectiveness in front of ten of his colleagues.
Calmly strapping on his headset, he dialed number after number, and he quite happily racked up success after success.
Instantly, this made me credible, and my overall program was accepted. Had he not done this so agreeably, and so heroically, I would have encountered much more resistance to the new methods I was introducing.
There are others like him, but they j
Let's focus on success, as Drucker suggested, and I'm sure we'll all be better for it!
Dr. Gary S. Goodman, President of www.Customersatisfaction.com, is a popular keynote speaker, management consultant, and seminar leader and the best-selling author of 12 books, including Reach Out & Sell Someone® and Monitoring, Measuring & Managing Customer Service, and the audio program, "The Law of Large Numbers: How To Make Success Inevitable,” published by Nightingale-Conant. He is a frequent guest on radio and television, worldwide. A Ph.D. from USC's Annenberg School, a Loyola lawyer, and an MBA from the Peter F. Drucker School at Claremont Graduate University, Gary offers programs through UCLA Extension and numerous universities, trade associations, and other organizations in the United States and abroad. He holds the rank of Shodan, 1st Degree Black Belt in Kenpo Karate. He is headquartered in Glendale, California, and he can be reached at (818) 243-7338 or at: gary@customersatisfaction.com